They call them crushes for a reason

LG, I'm with you on the men that are hard to read, you think everything is all good and than Blam! you get smacked in the face with a dose of "it's not what you thought reality"  I was feeling that way not so long ago, than decided there's nothing I can change so I picked myself up by the back of my shirt, dusted myself off and said hey world, Eff You!!

It sucks feeling not wanted, wheteher it's in a relationship or a friendship!  Hey at least you realized it early, right?

That's exactly how I feel.  I hate that we always subject ourselves to this, too.  It's like "this time it'll be different," but it never is.  But I went through that so much in highschool and I hated myself so much back then that I'm determined never to be that person again.  No matter what happens, I'm never going to dislike myself because of how someone else makes me feel.

You hit the nail on the head LG!!  I felt the same way in high school not being the "popular" kid, and people not liking you for the way you look, the way you act, or the way you choose to live your life!

As I always say and you can use this:

 "Take me for who I am or don't take me at all!"

Hard to read is right.  They like you, they don't say a word.  They don't like you, they act like they are in love with you.  Then they get you, and toss you aside, and want you again next week when they've gotten over their bad mood.  Whatevah, it's so not worth the worrying.